It was a great day today. One I have looked forward to for the past two years. Graduation has meant a lot to me, not just for the degree, but for the opportunity to show my kids what it means to set a goal and work really hard for it, sticking to the task until you finish it. As dopey as it sounds, over the past few years whenever my energy would flag I would visualize myself in cap and gown getting my masters, with my kids looking on (I never went so far as to imagine them looking on approvingly, they are 9 and 11. That would be way too much to expect.) Today was the day I worked towards, the day I saw in my mind's eye when the going got tough. And it was worth it.
Granted, it was a little different than I imagined. I didn't plan on the toilet backing up this morning and having to unclog it before I could go. I didn't plan on the hideous traffic and parking at the U. And I didn't plan on my lovely wife getting so sick Monday night that we spent all day Tuesday in the hospital. We barely got her well enough to drag her to the ceremony (you may notice in the photo below I am holding her up. She was trashed.)
I also never expected to be given the honor to speak at commencement. It was humbling, really. I had worked on my speech for a few days, and even practiced it in front of a few understanding folks. But I really underestimated the size of the event. I figured only a few hundred at most would be there. It looked more like 2-3,000 people from the stage. I was so nervous I had a hard time keeping my place on the page. It was not as smooth, and my timing was off from my rehearsals, but I think I got my message across. At least I hope so. I am not sure why they chose me. Really, there are equally deserving members in my cohort. I chose not to tell any of them about me speaking because I was embarrassed that I was chosen and they were not. When the time came they were very supportive and even teased me a little that I had not said anything. The bottom line is that I would not have passed up the opportunity for anything.
I also love that my presence on stage with all the regalia that a post graduate degree brings embarrassed my kids. I love that they had that great mix of pride that their dad was at the podium, and humiliation that their dad was at the podium. I think they really understood that this day was important to me, and ultimately, to them. College is in their future... whether they like it or not. There are a few other photos in the collection. One of me speaking and one that typifies just how excited I was to greet the day. Life is good.
[this is good]
Congratulations!! You look good in the goofy hat and hood!!
Glad you were able to hold Darcy up for the pic, but I want to know where the rain is?? Wasnt' it raining on graduation day?
Ciao! KJ
Posted by: marinogirls | 06/14/2007 at 09:40 PM
I will post those photos tonight or tomorrow. So funny to get your mail... we were just talking about you guys and the Solstice Parade. Wanna go?
Posted by: Drew Keller | 06/14/2007 at 09:53 PM
I will be at a jewelery class just up the street on Stone Way on Saturday afternoon.... otherwise I'd be all over it!!!
How do I make you both a friend and a family member???
Posted by: marinogirls | 06/14/2007 at 09:57 PM